The Vice, She Wrote Blog
Boundary Setting: Where is the Line?
The practice of boundary setting is a practice you may not be proficient in. I know I'm not. My boundaries are heavily influenced by the societal expectation that my needs and desires are secondary to someone else's.
The Sweetness of Self-Discovery
The Sweetness of Self-Discovery - A product review of sex toys, Cuddly Bird & G-spa from sextech company Osuga.
The Case for Compliments
No one needs compliments. It's not about need. I don't need anyone to tell me I'm beautiful to BELIEVE that I am. You are not 'obligated' to foster anyone's belief system with empty platitudes.
Commoditizing Kindness
Kindness is a precious commodity. Let's talk about the phenomenon of withholding kindness & compliments from another human. Many of my male friends tell me they withhold compliments & affection from women they are pursuing and/or interested in.
Small Tits & Fat Thighs
In the not-so-distant past, I had a partner who claimed to love me, yet consistently barraged me with negative reinforcement.
The Tale of Two Thighs
I had a man, a complete stranger, ask me the circumference of my thighs. While I believe he meant this to be complimentary, it is not. It is, however, laden with latent misogyny. My aim is to educate, so let's break this down.
An Expose on Expectations: Of Sages & Sorcery
Osé is a dual stimulator, while Filare is a clitoral stimulator. The type of clitoral stimulation both toys produce is wildly distinct. The clitoral mechanisms on Osé are internal and create a sucking sensation. Filare's mechanisms are external and stroke or thud against your clitoris upon applying pressure (operative phrase - apply pressure).
Through the Looking Glass
Photography is the art of creating the shadow of life. One plays God in a two-dimensional dollhouse where their every whim and wishful fancy moves, bends, and breaks their shadow puppets.
Sexual Independence is Female Liberation
This isn’t going to be your run of the mill review of a sex toy. This is a treatise on female sexuality and… squirting. Yes, a treatise on female ejaculate. No, it’s not mythology.
I am Only Human
'Sub drop' is a catch-all term used to identify the profoundly desolate headspace that submissives and/or bottoms may experience following play.
Body Suspension vs. Kink
Body suspension and kink play are the same thing, right? Wrong. While our human experience lives in the gray, the devil lives in the details.
Tenets of Submission
Submission is a sport.
This is edge play. Nothing in this realm lends itself to casual.
A Preface about Pain
Pain can be a vehicle; Pain can be a destination. Pain is pain - regardless of your relationship with it. And this is why pain is a divisive realm.